The Intimacy Reset Method

Because 'fine' isn't enough anymore.

The ‘rut’ has gone on for too long…

You’ve read the books.
You’ve tried the conversations.
Maybe even a round (or three) of couples therapy.

And still, the spark feels... gone.
Sex feels like pressure.
Conversations feel like calendars.
And you’re left wondering if this is all your relationship will ever be — functional, but disconnected.

It’s not. You’re not broken — but you are stuck.

And we can help you get unstuck.

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You’re ready for more…

You’ve read the articles, listened to the podcasts, maybe even had a few heart-to-hearts over late-night glasses of wine. You’ve tried to reconnect — and you’ve tried to let it go. But something still feels off. You know there’s more possible between you, and you’re tired of spinning your wheels. You want closeness without pressure, communication without tension, and intimacy that feels real to you, not forced or prescribed in a one-size-fits-all package.

You’re not afraid of doing the work. You just need the right kind of support. Something deeper than surface-level advice and more structured than the trial-and-error approach you’ve been stuck in.

That’s where we come in


The Intimacy Reset Method is a guided, supportive process for people in relationships who are ready to shift the dynamic, rekindle emotional connection, and create intimacy that actually works for (and defined by) both of you. It won’t happen overnight, but with consistent effort, the right tools, and a safe space to do the work, but change is absolutely possible

The Intimacy Reset Method

The Intimacy Reset Method is a relationship coaching experience for long-term couples who feel emotionally distant, physically disconnected, and stuck in the day-to-day grind. If your relationship looks “fine” from the outside but feels flat on the inside, you’re in the right place.

This method was made for couples who are:

  • More like teammates or roommates than lovers — managing schedules, chores, and responsibilities, but rarely feeling close

  • Stuck in a cycle of routine and obligation, with intimacy pushed to the bottom of the list

  • Missing the spark — physically, emotionally, or both — and wondering how it got so hard to connect

  • Busy with careers, parenting, and survival mode, with little energy left for each other

  • Wanting to feel chosen, seen, and desired again, not just tolerated or taken for granted

If that sounds familiar, you’re not broken — and your relationship isn’t beyond repair. You’re stuck in patterns that make intimacy feel out of reach, and that’s something we can help shift.

The Intimacy Reset Method provides a guided, structured path to help you slow down, reconnect, and rebuild the emotional and physical closeness that brought you together in the first place. With tools grounded in science, somatic work, and real-life relationship experience, you’ll stop guessing and start growing together.


Led by two experienced, licensed therapists who also happen to be a married couple of over 15 years, this coaching program blends professional insight with real-life relationship experience. We get what it’s like to juggle kids, careers, and connection — and we’re here to guide you with practical tools, supportive structure, and a no-judgment approach. This isn’t therapy, but it is grounded in deep clinical knowledge and lived wisdom, so you can stop surviving your relationship and start truly living in it again.

Why It Works

The Intimacy Reset Method was designed specifically for long-term couples who are ready to reconnect — not through years of analysis or surface-level advice, but through a guided, actionable path that meets you right where you are.

We combine our clinical training with our lived experience as a married couple of over 15 years — raising kids, building businesses, and navigating all the ways life can stretch a relationship thin. We've taken the best of what works in therapy and blended it with the transformational power of coaching to help you make real, lasting changes in how you connect, communicate, and experience intimacy.

Traditional Therapy

  • Focuses on healing past wounds and mental health

  • Unstructured, open-ended sessions

  • Led by licensed mental health professionals

  • Slower pace, often exploratory

  • Limited tools, mostly talk-based

  • Typically insurance-covered, lower cost

  • Best for deep emotional or psychological healing

The Intimacy Reset Method (Coaching)

  • Focuses on future growth and reconnection

  • Clear structure with goals and milestones

  • Led by experienced coaches with clinical backgrounds

  • Fast-moving, goal-driven support

  • Includes tools, scripts, and guided practices

  • Premium investment with high impact

  • Best for couples feeling stuck, not broken

What Makes This Program Different?

We walk the talk: We're not just trained in this work — we’ve lived it. As a married couple, we’ve been through seasons of disconnection, stress, and intimacy struggles ourselves. We get it, and we’ve built this method to support you in real, human ways.

We blend science with soul: This program draws from evidence-based modalities (like somatic work, attachment theory, and intimacy frameworks) while leaving room for humor, compassion, and the unique rhythms of your relationship.

We focus on traction, not perfection: This isn’t about getting it “right” — it’s about building momentum. Each week gives you something tangible to try, shift, or reflect on, so you're not just learning — you're living the change.

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What’s Included

The Intimacy Reset Method is delivered in a supportive, structured format designed to meet busy couples where they are — no more wondering what to do next or spinning your wheels.

Here’s how it works:

Weekly Coaching Modules
You’ll receive powerful, step-by-step video trainings each week that guide you through a new layer of intimacy work — including mindset shifts, emotional reconnection, somatic tools, and relational rituals.

Live Support Calls (Optional Upgrade)
Get personalized guidance through live group coaching or 1:1 options where we walk with you through the messy moments and breakthroughs. You’re never left doing this work alone.

Downloadable Tools & Scripts
From communication templates to pleasure mapping exercises, you’ll have practical resources you can return to again and again.

Bonus Lessons for Common Stuck Points
Extra support on topics like libido mismatches, parenting pressure, emotional labor, and more — because we know “life” doesn’t pause while you’re working on your relationship.

Realistic, Flexible Structure
Go at your own pace or follow the weekly rhythm — we’ve built this for couples juggling careers, kids, and life.

What You’ll Learn and Experience

The Intimacy Reset Method isn’t just about improving communication or scheduling more date nights, it’s about completely shifting how you show up in your relationship. This experience is designed to help you move from autopilot to intentional connection — emotionally, physically, and relationally.

Here’s what you’ll walk away with:

  • A deeper understanding of what’s keeping you disconnected — and how to shift those patterns together

  • Tools to rebuild emotional safety, so you both feel heard, respected, and wanted again

  • Communication practices that move you from calendar check-ins to meaningful conversations

  • Guidance on navigating intimacy without pressure, shutdowns, or guilt

  • A renewed sense of play, desire, and mutual appreciation

  • A shared vision of what intimacy looks like in this season of your life — and the skills to keep it alive

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You’re Ready — And This Is the Next Step

By now, you know something needs to shift. You’ve seen the signs of disconnection, felt the emotional distance, and wondered how to get back to each other. The truth is, it’s not about doing more — it’s about doing something different. And you don’t have to figure it out alone.

The Intimacy Reset Method gives you the structure, tools, and support to move forward — together — with intention.

This Is Your Invitation to Reset

  • You’re ready. Let’s go.

    Click below to choose your package and get started right away. Once enrolled, you’ll receive immediate access to the first module, your downloadable coaching toolkit, and a welcome email with next steps.

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    Use our scheduling link to book a free 15-minute consult with Jess or Dan. We’ll talk through your goals, questions, and which package might be the best fit for your relationship.

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  • We get it — this is a big step.

    If you're not ready to book or enroll just yet, reach out with your questions. We’re real people, not sales bots, and we’re happy to help you decide if this is right for you.

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